Julia Brough, Rhode Island End-of-Life Doula & Wedding Officiant
“Until death…”
A doula is a community-based, non-medical service role helping families experience monumental life changes.
A death doula, or end-of-life doula, assists in the dying process. Recognizing it as a natural and important part of life; intended from the moment we are born. Death doulas hold space for the one who is dying to write the script of their “good death”.
Before Death
If prognosis allows, this time will allow for pre-planning and education on ceremony and final body disposition options. This is also an opportunity to work on legacy projects and organization of personal items. Sitting respite for caregivers is common now.
During Death
Holding space for the client during this time is an integral part of the doula role. Making sure the environment and the energy are affirming a peaceful space for the dying person. A doula is a neutral presence, sitting vigil and reminding their client that their body knows what it is doing.
After Death
If the family desires it, holding vigil around the body – moving slowly and lovingly through final acts of love are encouraged. Maybe painting nails, brushing hair, or just holding hands. A doula will be prepared with the next steps for the body depending on the dying person’s wishes.
“…do us part.”
With a handful of wedding ceremonies under my belt, I am always looking for more reasons to celebrate love.
My years of project management experience make for an excellent foundation to organize and build your perfect ceremony upon.